We see what we want to see … Part 2

by Gabriele Conrad, Goonellabah, NSW. 

A few days after  the incident with the rogue ‘r’ that didn’t exist and had me running around in circles, as described in https://medicineandsergebenhayon.com/2018/08/05/we-see-what-we-want-to-see/ I was on an early morning walk with a friend on a wall by a river that leads to the ocean.

On the way we had been pointing out the birds and other creatures that graced our way – Willy Wagtails, Bluetongue Lizards, Magpies, even a Kookaburra. When walking back from the very tip of the wall which overlooks the ocean, my friend and I were again aware of the wildlife around us. A beautiful cormorant caught my eye and I pointed him out to her. He was well below us, at the water’s edge, preening himself and taking his time, giving us ample opportunity to admire the sleek lines, the long beak and his settled and sanguine demeanour.

We continued on our walk back to the cars, chatting at times and silent other times, until my friend said, “There’s another one!”

‘Wow! Great’, I thought. ‘How lucky can you get’ and looked around, or more specifically, I looked to my left and towards the water’s edge. I looked and looked and looked and finally had to admit to my friend that I could not spot the other cormorant.

Well, what had made me think that there was another cormorant? As it happened, I then spotted a Bluetongue Lizard right in front of me, in the middle of the path – the creature my friend had tried to draw my attention to.

And here I went again – I had been tripped up by my preconceived idea, the image I held of what I thought it must have been she was referring to. We had seen one cormorant, many other birds and a few lizards on our way. But I had immediately jumped to the conclusion that she must be talking about another cormorant.

Why? How? On what grounds other than a purely mental construct that doesn’t take kindly to what is really there to see but wants and needs it as it wants and needs things to be. And thus, again it was a case of seeing what I needed and wanted, what I expected to see rather than being open to what was there to be seen.

I wonder how frequently this happens in daily life and without the offered correction? Mefeels more often than we care to admit.

To elucidate further and just in case you harbour the tiniest of doubts about what is really going on with our five physical senses and especially our eyes, I will finish with a quote from Sermon 43, delivered to a live audience on 1 January 2017 (The Way of The Livingness Sermons 31 – 43):

“In the ‘looking’, that is, in the predetermined dictation, we cast or project what to ‘look’ for. In other words: we are seeking to match the preconception.” – Serge Benhayon

 

Read more:

  1. Seeing is believing – or is it? 
  2. Clairsentience – our ancient birthright for everyday life. 

 

 

 

42 thoughts on “We see what we want to see … Part 2

  1. Not only do we see what we want to see but we show others what they want to see. We’re shape shifters extraordinaire, constantly changing roles dependant on who we’re with and what we’re doing, as opposed to being the constant truth of who we all are, which is the consciousness of God. One consciousness that remains constant with all people across all situations, the constant terminal of God.

  2. It sounds stunning where you live. There again it is stunning where we all live if we truly allowed ourselves to connect to the truth and love within ✨ #innerconstellation #magicwithin In the last few days I have seen where I get caught up in life and not hold first our connection to the all and who we truly are. It so needs to be our multidimensionality first and then living from here.

  3. In actual fact I don’t think that we always see what we want to see, not deep down want to see, because what we all most want to see is the truth of all things and that’s rarely what we see.

    1. We have all learned in the past how we dealt with hurts in life to the point of just avoiding things. And, we paint the whole with the same brush even if it was one small thing that was painful. As time passes, we can even forget why we do not like something. Values and beliefs fit well into this category. Being open and willing to see afresh repairs our self-inflicted blindness of what we refuse to see…

  4. Oh, I just sigh when I consider how much of my life I have spent confirming pictures I have constructed!!!! Big ouch, and I wonder how many people I have judged, how much stubbornness and energy I have wasted convinced I knew the truth!!!

  5. We are cocooned in our own fortress peering out of tiny window slits of eyes unable to look right or left, up or down and as a consequence are living a narrowed down existence of what could otherwise be a grand and expansive life.

  6. Have you ever lost something in the house and can’t find it anywhere? The harder you try, the more focused, or narrow-focused you become in your search. You backtrack in your mind to remember your steps from the last time you had it and where it usually sits. The worst part is if it is not small, so that leaves the couch ate it, or in the junk drawer, we all deny we have, limits the places it could be. In the end, was in plain sight because it was moved from where you had left it because someone had moved it to someplace safe. Your picture of where it had always been, made you ignore it when it was in plain sight.

  7. It’s easy to see how one person would swear they saw something totally different to another and nothing will budge them from their stance. So, how much of what we see with our eyes is the truth and can it be trusted – somehow I don’t think so.

  8. This exposes how rare it is to be fully present, so busy are we, inwardly marching forward with assumptions, pictures and projections. A great reflection of how easy it is to be deceived or deceive ourselves that what we see is true. Constantly staying in the present with what is before us and not be buried in our heads, an essential quality to have.

  9. We very often make a judgment on something based on what we see. The way someone looks at us. Even the stories we hear, how we navigate ourselves to take one side or another. Believing what we want to hear and see. Its no wonder that there are so many polarising views on various issues around the world. I can see the immense value of examining the pictures we have on life, the world and how we think things should be.

    1. We come at life with so many preconceptions, pictures, ideals and beliefs that we fail to see what is right there before us – quite often misinterpreting to a great degree, which just shows our predilection for drama and hurt. The irony is that we create what isn’t even true and then react to what we have created.

  10. We are all here for a short time, so why do we waste that time jumping to conclusions? We are the one that creates our space. We can use it to expand the time we have and smell the roses on our journey, or become the lemming heading for the cliff.

  11. Similarly when we assume something about another or anything really we are tainting it and not allowing it to be or allowing the true truth but instead making it about what ‘WE want’ to see, or hear or feel! mmmm I wonder how much this goes on in the world!

  12. Love the way Soul steps in to show the way, inviting us to reflect on other areas of our lives where we’re choosing to only ‘see what we want to see’

    1. I love your candour Alexis. The spirit can play some really insidious games. The manipulation you talk of here is a double whammy as what you may have been seeing may not have been true in the first place.

      1. Absolutely Michelle, I put my hand up in the air for spending most of my life lying in an attempt to sustain lies, there’s been very little honesty let alone truth in most of my adult years.

  13. I have often felt it is dangerous to assume and that is what is suggested here. Assumptions arise out of past experiences and narrow our understanding and offering in what is truly there

  14. We cast our minds and project far more than we realise – I feel Gabriele this is a great discussion to have, to ask the question why do we do this. It is only by asking such questions and picking away at our preconceptions of life will we be able to just be with life.

    1. I don’t think that when we look out that we are even free to see what’s truly there, I feel that what we’re going to see has long since been decided and that it is our movements leading up to that point that have already locked in what we’re going to believe we’re seeing.

  15. ‘seeking to match a preconception’ gosh that says just so so much and indeed how many of us in the world do this and how many times a day!

  16. It’s so true what you are presenting here Gabriele. Countless times I have approached situations expecting to see something in particular and found out I had been completely off track. It’s such a big realisation when we find out we have narrowed down our ‘vision’ by getting locked into expecting things to be a certain way.

  17. Well observed Gabriele. There are many ways we’re tricked by self-created pictures, we then hold dearly to. Seeing what we want to see traps us with false perceptions, creates complication and conflict. Great to have it exposed in this way.

  18. Having worn glasses from an early age, I have been pondering on what truth I didn’t want to see in my family, as opposed to what I ‘wanted ‘ to see.

    1. I really, really wanted to see ‘happy families’ when I was growing up and I made sure that that was exactly what I saw regardless of what was actually in front of me.

    1. I agree Sue, this happened to me this afternoon. I was in a very complex medical case conference and because I have a picture that I’m not ‘medically trained’ and most people in the room were incredibly experienced in their fields, I found myself almost writing myself off as to what I can offer but it’s not true. We all have access to the Heavens, literally and the Heavens are more experienced and trained in every single aspect of life than all of us put together. Therefore by staying connected to myself in a very practical way I can sure up my connection with Heaven and what’s needed will come through.

  19. I agree that this happens far more than I’ve cared to admit. Wanting what I see in life to match a mental picture. I’m wondering how I could experiment with not doing this…

  20. Wow Gabriele, you have made such a great point here, we have a projection ‘ in our mind’s eye’ so often as to what another is talking about, we just jump to conclusions from that rapid projection. It is a great reminder to not jump to conclusions, have no projection, and question the other as to what exactly they are talking about if it is not absolutely clear. This is a very simple situation, but taken to an extreme this can lead to some very unfortunate misunderstandings or arguments.

  21. If we really truly saw everything in its entirety we might be able to see and sense the energy behind the physical world that we have knowingly “shut out” in our endeavour to “fit in” and cope with this world we have all created. The more I give myself permission to ‘truly Be and see’, the more I see there is more to this reality than meets the eye.

  22. Reblogged this on and commented:
    “In the ‘looking’, that is, in the predetermined dictation, we cast or project what to ‘look’ for. In other words: we are seeking to match the preconception.” – Serge Benhayon

  23. So beautifully said Gabriele, an awesome detail to observe that changes everything. And we can ponder much more deeply on if we allow ourselves to receive … or do we project.

    1. It is fascinating to think about how often we project in a day rather than simply seeing what is in front of us without bias. How often also must we feel slighted and hurt at something that was never intended as such but because of our hurts or preconceptions, we see in others an insult where there was none.

      1. Michelle I’d say that we’re projecting constantly because how often do any of us look out and see the consciousness of God everywhere? The fact that we all look out and see millions of separate people, all with different identities is an indication in itself that our vision is warped.

      2. Yes and pre-judging people and events. Ouch. Its so important to bring understanding in and with an increased awareness this will happen less. Just observe…..

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