True Medicine

by Denise Morden, Byron Bay

Recently I had to spend some time in hospital and it was an amazing experience, because it was the closest I had come to experiencing true and integrated medicine.

My doctor is extraordinary. He is also a healer, who combines medicine with psychological and physical care by treating the whole body. I have never had a physician like this before; he is always accessible and I know he is there for me, in my corner.

This is an extraordinary relationship: a partnership, there is no “them and us.”

His care is for the whole body and the person; I am not just a ‘patient’. I am met, connected to, and he sees who I am. I am not a victim of the disease or the medical system, because I am pro-active in my treatment and care, a co–creator in my own healing. I am fully responsible for the choices I make. I have great trust in him even when he is honest enough to say he is not sure what to do next. I know that his humility and his ability to accept and surrender will allow him to KNOW what the next step is when it comes to that. His skill and care also extend to before, during and after any procedure.

Over the years I have seen how the unit and ward he works in have totally been transformed. His staff love him, because he knows who they are, he knows all their names and what they do. One nurse tells me that some of the other doctors don’t even know their names. He works with them all as a team, each one is essential to the holistic care of the person. This shows in the extraordinary way I am treated by all the staff.

The level of care goes above and beyond anything I have ever experienced from specialists and care in other hospitals.

Everyone I meet who attends to me, from the doctor to the cleaner, introduces themselves and explains what they do.

I am informed every step of the way, about what is going on, and constantly asked if I am OK, comfortable, or in pain.

From the warm blankets put on me in the operating theatre, to the care of the porter who wraps me in blankets in the wheelchair when going to have an x ray.

I am treated with the utmost care and respect, with dignity. But there is also friendly chat, humour and laughter, as we exchange stories about our lives.

No effort is spared in my comfort, from the anaesthetic cream applied to my skin, so I don’t feel a single needle, to the menu specially prepared for me by the chef as I have food intolerances. No expense is spared in my care – l feel that these people love what they do and they do it with love.

No matter how good the doctor is, without this aftercare the outcome for patients would not be so favorable.

For me this is true integrated medicine and holistic care, from the ward through to the procedure and the aftercare and this is empowering for me.

I am an active partner in the treatment, management and healing of my disease.

With this support I am encouraged also to look at the deeper psychological issues and experiences that have got me to this point. My healing is so deep because I have the trust and support to go there, to let go, to accept and surrender to this level of care.

The depth of my healing shows in my recovery and resilience.

I have a genetic disease that should have killed me 10 years ago, yet now my tissue is regenerating, and with the medical help and the letting go of issues, my body is able to heal to a new level.

I am told that I am a ‘medical miracle.’

The miracle for me is finding an extraordinary Physician and Healer whose support and care has allowed me to heal.

I have experienced a new level of true integrated care.

This is truly Universal Medicine.

 

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771 thoughts on “True Medicine

  1. ‘I am treated with the utmost care and respect, with dignity. But there is also friendly chat, humour and laughter, as we exchange stories about our lives.’ What you are describing in your blog is exceptional but what I feel is that this should be the norm, we are all equal and responsible beings and this is the way we should be treated where ever we go.

  2. ‘No matter how good the doctor is, without this aftercare the outcome for patients would not be so favorable.’ Great point Denise it has to be the whole team that supports the whole of the patient, and everyone needs to take responsibility for their part including the patient themselves.

  3. This is the future way for medicine and care – a true relationship between doctor, patient and hospital care with an understanding of energy in the practical application of medicine.

  4. How beautiful it is to read of a partnership between a health practitioner and their patient equally engaged in the healing process and responsible for their part.

  5. I had an operation just over a year ago and fortunately had the funds to go privately and the care I received was very good. I also had the support of Esoteric Healing practitioners who came in to visit me in hospital and at home, so there was a great deal of self care and integrated care that helped me to recover well. Where the system falls down is with people who can’t afford private healthcare and suffer the vagaries and delays of the public system. Nurses working flat out with little time for patients and doctors doing both public and private work, there is not the level of care you get in the private system because the resources are not there. There is no equality in our healthcare systems when they are financially based.

  6. “I am an active partner in the treatment, management and healing of my disease.” Taking responsibility for our part in the healing process is so often the missing ingredient in the prescription.

  7. A beautiful example of how we are an integral part of medicine, and as being a part, there is a relationship that needs to be nurtured along the way.

  8. ‘I know that his humility and his ability to accept and surrender will allow him to KNOW what the next step is when it comes to that.’ What an utter blessing to share that much trust and love with someone who is supporting you in such a fundamental way and to know that as your relationship evolves so too does that trust and love.

  9. When I read “I am treated with the utmost care and respect, with dignity” my first thought was that this is how we all should be treated when we are needing to be in hospital, but I know from experience that this is not always the case. To be treated as a whole person, not just a knee or a foot, and respected as the one who knows their body better than anyone ought to be a given, as it is an essential part of a person’s healing; something that every medical professional should be taught on day one of their training.

  10. My heart sings reading this blog today to hear someone describe their doctor as a true partner in their healing process and to feel the ripple affects of how that physician treats everyone is beautiful … this is how medicine can be and this feels so supportive of both the patients and all the staff involved.

  11. Wow! It is so rare to read this kind of feedback of a medical practitioner. I’ve seen many GP’s over the years, and I have to say I’ve often felt very underwhelmed in the appointments. Often being told that what I presented was unusual and there was no reason for it, with little to no desire to investigate further. A huge part of this is definitely due to the amount of pressure doctors have on them to pump through their patient list and so I understand that going above and beyond is often just not within their capacity. But it says a lot about how we treat doctors and nurses and the medical system in general.

  12. ‘The miracle for me is finding an extraordinary Physician and Healer whose support and care has allowed me to heal. I have experienced a new level of true integrated care. This is truly Universal Medicine.’ Beautifully said Denise.

  13. It’s encouraging to read this example of true medicine. What stands out is the lived quality of the medical staff supporting you and that this can be felt in your patient experience. But equally important is the emphasis you place on your own responsibility for your healing. Without this as a key component, treatment and recovery are simply transactions on a body that disowns the cause.

  14. ” I have experienced a new level of true integrated care. This is truly Universal Medicine. ” This is so wonderful to read and hear about, universal medicine in a hospital, Plato must be jumping for joy, thank you for sharing Denise.

  15. True medicine is about offering someone who suffers from a condition a full and spacious support to heal and move on from the causal chain that led the person there and if possible its root cause.

  16. This level of care and understanding offers a deep appreciation for the power of relationships, true medicine and healing. It is unheard of in the medical profession and we have a divine opportunity to shift so much simply by allowing the body to communicate. Medicine has become about risk and the knowledge when this does not truly support the patient. What is presented here is an all-encompassing way of medicine.

  17. What is presented here is the future of medicine and health care where patients take responsibility for their own health and health care practitioners support them in that.

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