Eating humble pie – taking antibiotics for the first time in over 20 years

by Matilda Bathurst, Midwife & Primary School Teacher, UK

I have been beautifully, tenderly and gently humbled this week following a visit to my GP on Monday. For over 3 weeks I had had a cough and was feeling various degrees of unwell, resisting, as is my tendency, really taking care of myself and allowing support from others.

Prompted by a beautiful man in my life, I made the appointment and was guided by my GP to take some antibiotics, in that a cough that persists for over 3 weeks is significant and he could hear a ‘slight crackle’ in the base of my left lung.

For a long time, I have had a disdainful relationship with mainstream medicine, avidly exploring alternative modalities and building an arrogance in myself about mainstream medicine being ‘less’ and below me. So it was with some discomfort and unfamiliarity that I collected my prescription and actually committed to take the tablets.

What has transpired in the week since (I completed the course yesterday) has been nothing short of miraculous. For one the cough has gone… but more significantly I have had the opportunity to explore and review a filing cabinet’s worth of pictures, beliefs, opinions and ideals about how I have always thought things ‘should’ be: how I should present myself in the world and that it is a failure and weakness to be ill and need the support of others.

I wrote to my GP today to say thank you and enclose a copy of part of the email here:

‘I just wanted to say a big thank you for your support in our appointment last week. I have just finished the course of antibiotics and my cough has gone. Almost more inspiring though than this, is the fact that my whole relationship with being unwell and allowing myself to be supported has shifted. I realised that in well over 20 years I have only taken one paracetamol and up to last week I was quite stubbornly proud of this, but what it actually shows is that I have not allowed myself to be taken care of and have ‘done’ hardship far too much.

So, more than just physiological support, my first round of antibiotics for a while has shown me a whole lot more.’

Would I say I have a tendency to be stubborn, yes; opinionated, yes… but less and less so and it is life changing moments like this one that are breaking the abusive and self-disregarding patterns of behaviour I have chosen and established in my life.

 

Read more:

  1. Should we reconsider what illness and disease mean for us? 
  2. Why don’t I feel well? Is illness and disease just a random event? 

 

 

498 thoughts on “Eating humble pie – taking antibiotics for the first time in over 20 years

  1. It’s quite something the defiance we can go into where we think we can do it on our own. I have gone my whole life thinking this, defending this and being proud of this. All at the expense of my body and keeping people at arms length. Crazy how our buried hurts can have such a destructive impact. Healing the hurts and letting go of the protection has allowed me to accept support from others and it feels amazing.

  2. Sometimes waking up to our ill choices can be humbling but being humbled is often necessary to stop us from doing whatever we want in life regardless of the cost to our body.

  3. Being open to both Western and true complementary medicine i.e. that which is offered by Universal Medicine allows the body and being to be supported and deeply healed in more ways than we could ever imagine. We would be foolish to discount either.

  4. We like to think we know better and yet our beliefs do not always include our whole body intelligence nor the intelligence and support that is all around us.

  5. When we stay open to both conventional medicine and the esoteric medicine and modalities, it gives us the whole picture in order to support us through illness and disease and so much more in life. What a blessing.

  6. Arrogance can accompany ‘good’ health and when we begin to feel invincible, watch out To feel our vulnerabilities invites us to more deeply nurture ourselves.

  7. What I love Matilda is your letter of thanks to your GP, your honesty and humility. We should all be this way more often.

  8. I’ve just eaten humble pie after declining my dentists offer to prescribe antibiotics before I went away to work. I thought I knew best, and didn’t. The pain that accompanied a raging gum infection over a weekend when I couldn’t get antibiotics was enough for me never to reject them again. Repeated pain killers ineffective except for short periods, antibiotics subsided the pain within twenty four hours. Lesson learned and dental procedure planned.

  9. A ‘humble-pie’ moment reminds us that humbleness is a way of living that keeps us forever in the learning seat of life and of others. It removes the ‘I’ attitude of thinking that we are ‘right’ – for there is no right or wrong…

  10. Oh those pictures, beliefs, opinions and ideals we have and even are proud off. A form of control maybe so we can manipulate ourselves and others so things go our way. Your example of surrender to your illness and what you got to see about yourself and attitude about being ill is fabulous and so one by one we can let go of what we thought was the way and choose a life of healing.

  11. We can be so blinded when we take sides between Western Medicine and Complementary Medicine… when both have a place in supporting us with our health and wellbeing.

    1. Yes, both approaches definitely aid the healing process as one heals the physical symptoms and one brings about deeper awareness, insight and understanding… thus a more complete and all-round healing.

  12. There is something very remarkable about outing my opinions and beliefs and being open to listening (actually really hearing) what others have to say, different angles on things and then letting these ‘new ideas’ freshen up my relationship with life. It feels a bit like dissolving old cement.

  13. Antibiotics is such a big subject for discussion because although they do the job they are designed to do in terms of killing unwanted bacteria, they can often have huge side effects that may require further medication to suppress. In the end it is up to us, we trust our doctors but our body knows what it needs and for some of us antibiotics are fine, for me, I ended up with a horrendous rash on my back and an inflammatory response to subsequent insect bites which means that I will be very cautious about taking them again. Many people are allergic to penicillin, as another example.

  14. I was one of those people that had to be on deaths door before I would go to see a doctor, thinking it wasn’t very manly or a bit weak but now I will go at the drop of a hat, with one in three of us getting cancer I want to be on top of it if it turns out that I am that one in three.

  15. Hardship is one that can easily be something that we feel we need we have to go through in life, and it can be on just small things where we feel it can’t be that easy. What I have found with applying the teachings of Serge Benhayon, from being inspired from what he shares and lives is that it really doesn’t have to be like this. We need to take responsibility for the choices we make and this includes seeking medical support, emotional suppport or physical support in order to move through things that can be presented. We are for ever learning so bringing in a form of hardship or punishment does not serve anyone.

  16. Awesome sharing Matilda… there is always so much more to our illnesses and diseases than meets the eye if we are prepared to truly see what our bodies are offering us.

    1. Yes, … there is often more than meets the eye… being prepared to see the bigger picture of illness and disease enables us to take off the blinkers of ideals, beliefs & perceptions, and realise more about ourselves than we would otherwise have discovered … and then subsequently heal.

  17. Oh how our stubborness can get us into trouble and keep us stagnant, like you Matilda I also avoided main stream doctors. What I love about this blog is it exposes that what we feel is “good” can often be capping us.

    1. Absolutely Michael… we are so, so much more than this human body – we are multi-dimensional beings – every one of us equally and innately so.

  18. What a great example of healing where you not only address the physiological issues that affect our functioning, but examine the underlying beliefs and ideals that undermine our ability to self care and self nurture.

  19. It is so liberating to actually surrender to what we feel our body is aksing for. Fighting these messages is exhausting and simply adds to the dis-ease.

  20. As someone who has allergies to antibiotics, I can relate to the need for such loving care over our health. Having a care for ourselves and our physical body is so crucial for our well being.

  21. It is quite exposing see just how abusive it is to live driven by ideals and beliefs as they do not consider or are implused by the intelligence of the body but rather come from a knowledge base, mind driven concept that generally only serves an emotional need to be identified in some way. I have found that this always results in us disregarding the truth of our bodies and how this truth always supports and guides us.

  22. Owning up when we have changed our minds, and maybe we weren’t right about something is such good skill to have, because no-one gets things correct all the time, and it is brilliant for children to know that parents can make mistakes too.

      1. Mhmm, what if in living far less we are actually given everything we need to feel however we want, but when living Truth we are simply given everything we are.

  23. Humble pie is good for the arrogant and ignorant being inside us that likes to think of itself to be superior and in control even when reality clearly shows that it doesn´t work – the bliss of ignorance and pride.

  24. We can make choices and decisions throughout our lives, but it is so important to realise what pictures contain and hold us to influence those decisions. It is great Matilda, that you have realised how those choices controlled you in the past and you have been released from those ideas now.

  25. There is a beautiful surrender in accepting the help which is there around us in all true forms, whether from medicine to support our healing or from esoteric healing to support medicine.

  26. There is an enormous level of surrender that occurs in the body when we ‘let-go’ of an attitude or firmly held perception that we are ‘right’ , and experience a ‘humble pie’ moment… this surrender is probably the greatest healing step – of self care – towards ourselves, revealing just how much we allow the human spirit to wield control and override the body.

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