Experience as a Cancer Patient

I understand that certain allegations have been made about Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine, in particular claiming that Serge and the practitioners associated with Universal Medicine are in opposition or competition with conventional medical practitioners. This completely contradicts my experience as a cancer patient over the past year since my diagnosis in early June 2011 and in my association with Serge and Universal Medicine since early August 2011. During this past year I have had continuous treatment medically and also since early August, weekly sessions with Serge or other Universal Medicine practitioners. I am grateful to both my conventional and complementary practitioners for the caring support that I have received.

Before my diagnosis I had had chronic fatigue and chronic digestive symptoms. I had for years sought both medical and complementary advice and treatment. Generally there was not much either sphere could do to alleviate my symptoms. I had a strong preference for taking good care of myself in terms of diet, exercise, vitamins, regular check-ups, as well as massage, acupuncture and healing. I wanted to avoid needing any medical treatment if possible.

After I was diagnosed with breast cancer, I was shocked and terrified. I learned it was aggressive and I accepted that I could not avoid major and immediate treatment. I had an initial surgery in July which removed all the lymph nodes under my left arm and a lump from my left breast. I was advised that I would be needing chemotherapy and radiotherapy and hormonal drug treatment as well. When I considered chemotherapy I felt that in my debilitated state from years of low energy, that I would suffer more than most people. I dreaded it and felt it might be the death of me before the cancer. The first surgery did not achieve clear margins around the lump and I was booked for a second surgery, a wide excision, in August.

Before the second surgery, although I rarely went out at this time, I attended the Byron Writers Festival for one afternoon. I went into a talk on words and energy by Serge Benhayon. He spoke of how people say they love coffee when they mean they need coffee. He said that if people were honest and said they needed the coffee then they might ask themselves how they were living so that they needed coffee to get through their day. They might just make better choices to improve their energy.  I appreciated his reasoning. He also spoke about the rising number of women getting breast cancer. I became very interested. I had not thought of myself as being part of a cohort. His comments about being true to ourselves as a way to be healthy made sense to me. I knew I had many times looked after others even when exhausted.

I saw Serge in early August before the second surgery. I talked to him about death and how I had been living my life for others rather than for myself. I could see how I had squandered my life energy and made myself vulnerable to cancer in spite of my ‘healthy’ lifestyle. From my first visit with him, the intense, exhausting emotion I had been living with reduced dramatically. I told him how I optimistically believed that I wouldn’t need a mastectomy although the surgeon had warned me that it was possible if the second surgery did not get clear margins. The surgeon had said I could choose a mastectomy this time instead of just another excision. I was shocked and said, “No!”  Serge somehow communicated to me a sense that I would be alright, even if a mastectomy was necessary. He didn’t minimise the loss rather he acknowledged the fear and sadness that I felt. After the second surgery I told him the results showed I would need a mastectomy. I chose to continue seeing Serge throughout my cancer treatment.

I had heard quite independently from a physiotherapist who was recommended by the hospital that people who attended Serge coped well with the treatment. She said that women who had the esoteric acupuncture (chakrapuncture) treatment along with the same medical treatment that I had and would be having, did “remarkably better” than those who didn’t have this particular complementary treatment. She had seen a lot of breast cancer patients and had great respect for Serge and his work. She had attended some of his lectures.

Going into the third surgery, the mastectomy, I was almost calm, certainly accepting and even grateful, since my surgeon had told me that provided I had the recommended treatment, I had a very good chance of surviving. Beforehand I had some thorough cries over my breast. Since I emerged from the surgery, I have never felt any further need to mourn it. My healing went well, and I was amused to have compliments from physios and nurses on my ‘beautiful’ scar.

I was given a month to recover from my surgery before I began chemotherapy. I was seeing Serge weekly for counselling and esoteric Chakra-puncture and began to feel so well physically that I could take longer and more lively walks than I had been able to do for many months before my diagnosis. I had also ended a destructive relationship and felt so positive that I told Serge that maybe I wouldn’t need chemotherapy. He said immediately that he would never advise that I not have the chemo. He simply encouraged me to keep looking at my life and my choices and feel for myself what was right. I cried over this because I definitely didn’t want to have chemo and had misunderstood and thought he might back that choice. Again, he gave me support through counselling and Chakra-puncture and taught me to “rest deeply” as I went into my chemo sessions, fully choosing to be there since I had decided that I would have it.

I have told my oncologist about the esoteric Chakra-puncture sessions and how helpful I find them. He has told me several times that I have been doing very well and even said, “keep up the acupuncture”. As with the surgery, I found that I handled the chemo treatments well, having generally only fatigue and no vomiting or pain, and minimal side effects. I did make a choice after four months of chemo, to stop a little early from the second type because of side effects that suddenly got much stronger and could have been irreversible. I made this decision with my oncologist who said that I had had a lot of chemo and he didn’t think that the slightly shorter treatment would affect my life expectancy. I told Serge about this decision after I had made it.

After the chemotherapy treatment, I was due to see a professor of radiotherapy. Yet again I hoped that I didn’t need to have treatment but he said I did. I live alone and have not been well enough to manage without regular help. The radiotherapy treatment was nearly an hour’s drive from my home, five days a week for five weeks. I didn’t know how I could get myself driven back and forth and how I would cope with that much travel even if I had a driver. Universal Medicine provided me with a beautiful and nurturing space in which to stay within a short distance of the hospital so that I was able to drive myself to the treatment even though I was still tired and became more so. Again, my treatment went easily and the main nurse who treated me said, “you obviously heal well.”

At this stage, I am beginning to recover some energy after the radiotherapy but am still easily tired probably because of the herceptin infusions that I still have every three weeks at the chemo ward. I am continuing to have weekly treatments at the UniMed clinic and always feel a profound sense of peace and rest at these times.

I have also had treatment from a physiotherapist at the UniMed clinic, who gave me simple exercises that immediately helped and within a couple of weeks completely relieved the cording that had developed in my left arm months after the lymph node removal. These gentle movements were somewhat different to those shown me by the other physiotherapist. The main distinction in her method was that it depended on beginning with and developing a deep connection with the body, not just mechanical movements while the mind might be elsewhere.

I hope it is obvious that Serge works very well with conventional medicine and is not at all opposed to it. In fact, he has often said that we have never had better medical treatment and he has particular praise for surgeons. I believe that his work is truly a complement to the conventional methods and when the two are combined, the patient is very fortunate indeed.

One of the most significant things to understand about Serge and other practitioners at Universal Medicine is that they first take great care of themselves. They heed the old dictum: “Physician, heal thyself.”

255 thoughts on “Experience as a Cancer Patient

  1. Our experience of anything is governed by our alignment. We are either aligned to the consciousness of God or we’re aligned to a consciousness that is looking to de-rail us from our connection with God. Therefore our experience with being sick or having an accident is, like all experiences, dependent on our alignment. When we’re aligned to God then we see the world in a completely different light, there is a depth of understanding to life that simplifies it immeasurably.

  2. What a difference from feeling sad and fearful to ‘almost calm, certainly accepting and even grateful’. Your blog reminds me of the importance of taking care of ourselves the whole time but also if we get an illness or dis-ease to continue that care all the way, through working with western medicine as well as understanding the energetic root cause of the illness or dis-ease.

  3. It is an insidious belief that women take on to be there for others and that it somehow makes us a “good person” even though we are living in self neglect and ignoring the signals from our body that need to be attended to for our own care. It’s kind of like opening a business but making sure that all the businesses around us are doing well, then being surprised when our own business (body) goes bankrupt. It also highlights to me how pervasive lack of self care is, and how important it is for there to be people reflecting a self caring way of life to others to show that the current way is not the only way of life.

    1. Melinda I like the analogy that you have used as it highlights how misguided we are that we ‘think’ looking after others before ourselves is a ‘good’ thing to do. I know from my upbringing as a Roman Catholic that it is part of the doctrine of the religion especially for females to give themselves tirelessly with no thought for their own welfare and to question the teaching is sinful for having such thoughts.

      1. Mary even without an overt connection to religion that idea that women should give and give and if not they are somehow ‘bad’ or ‘evil’ is quite pervasive, I know it certainly has affected me. What the belief does is impose on the decency of people to be good or do their best as a form of manipulation, when actually we don’t need any conditions to feel and be our wonderful selves at all. It’s a strange but strong link to some religions that sacrifice us somehow good, the Martyr syndrome, when it doesn’t have to be that way at all – we can take loving care of ourselves and others when needed.

  4. Whilst the esoteric modalities support with the root causes of the symptoms, western medicine treats them at the other end, necessarily so. At some point in our evolution we will be living in such a way that western medicine won’t be needed as much, until then it makes total sense to use everything we have to support our bodies to heal.

  5. What you are sharing here with us all is that Western medicine and esoteric medicine work well together we could say hand in hand. And isn’t this something we all want?

  6. Serge Benhayon, as the article attests, is very pro-medicine. and supports clients to embrace both conventional and complementary medicine. This is the future way of medicine.

  7. What a testimony to read about the combination of treatments, modern medicine and Universal Medicine. From a young age, I felt modern medicine wasn’t the only healing modality, there was room for others. If we go back centuries, the ‘other’ healing modalities contributed to healing, probably not documented to how researchers would have liked. If we studied a cohort of patients or performed a qualitative research, I ponder on the outcome. Maybe modern science may not want to hear or read about.

    If modern medicine was the only availability, then why are we faced with more and more patients resistant to antibiotics? Obviously due to over use and I feel we will see more and more of this.

    There is another way to healing, complementary to modern medicine healing. This testimonial of a cancer patient’s experience needs to be researched in more depth.

  8. It is very obvious that Serge Benhayon works very well with conventional medicine and is not at all opposed to it. The support you were given with the care and Chakra-puncture treatments made you feel you were not alone during this process, you had family caring for you.

  9. The support of Universal Medicine therapies that works with conventional medicine truly works. The marriage of the two gives each patient the opportunity for true healing.

  10. Your very detailed account of your journey with cancer is such a confirmation of the healing power of the combination of western medicine and complementary medicine, such as offered by Universal Medicine and its practitioners. And then of course, there is one more ingredient in the healing recipe and that was your commitment to caring for yourself, after all, as I have come to know, we are our greatest healers.

    1. Ingrid, I liked your comment, ‘one more ingredient in the healing recipe and that was your commitment to caring for yourself’. Working in the health care professional, I see more and more patients reliant on others to heal them and seldom take responsibility for their own well-being.

      Things don’t just happen, the signs are there, are we willing to listen or are we going to be made to be listened, by the body?

      1. Shushila I have a friend who recently underwent surgery for breast cancer. One of the topics of conversation was her incessant doing for everyone, always leaving her self out of the equation. I asked her what role model was she being for her daughter? Did she want her daughter to grow up running around after other people so that she could feel better about her self that she felt ‘wanted’ by the family? The answer has to be no. I have discovered our spirit is very needy and loves the attention gained while looking after others but the consequences to our bodies surely cannot be worth it? If we learn to appreciate ourselves in everything we do, the need to seek outside of ourselves for confirmation of being loved is diminished to the point where there is no need to seek attention, recognition as we are enough as we are.

  11. Serge Benhayon has certainly helped me enormously to welcome and embrace conventional medicine not only for my own health and well being but that of my family’s too. Today I do not hesitate to seek support from conventional medicine when I feel it is necessary. Without his support I would still be in the arrogance and ignorance of the amazing work conventional medicine has to offer.

    1. Having recently had an operation I feel nothing other than admiration for the medical profession. My GP, my specialist, my anaesthetist, the nursing staff, everyone that was involved in my procedure. My part was to take along my body which I look after amazingly well and to continue to look after my body with the deep care that I already do after my procedure. In fact I feel that it’s the deep care that I look after myself with that meant that my physical healing went incredibly well. My surgeon said that because he wasn’t able to stitch the area that it would be very sore for 2 weeks and sent me home with some pretty strong pain killers. He was flummoxed to hear that not only did I not have to take any pain killers at all but that I didn’t feel any soreness whatsoever. The area has healed absolutely beautifully and I feel that that is because of the way that I choose to live in every day of my life.

      1. Is it possible the key ingredient to the fact that you recovered from the operation so well and did not require pain killers is because you do look after your body so amazingly well? When we take care of ourselves lovingly so, our bodies are at their optimal level of health.

      2. Yep I reckon so Mary, I can’t think of any other explanation, nothing just happens for no reason and the deep level of self care that I live with is the only possible explanation that I can think of.

  12. If our interest was truly in our well-being, and not about control or ownership, why wouldn’t we be more willing to be open to anything/anyone that anyone would, through their own personal experience, claim to be of true, great support, and give that a fair go, but instead attack, especially when so many of us are so sick and exhausted already?

  13. The experience shared here is a great example of how conventional medicine and esoteric medicine complement each other throughout the healing process and how deepening a connection with our body establishes an awareness of how we are living and treating our body so that we are able to empower ourselves by taking responsibility and making choices that are far more self-nurturing.

  14. Serge does work very well with modern medicine – I agree – he brings the added (and currently missing) element of self responsibility and that we need to also make choices ourselves to initiate the healing process, not simply rely on the medication or the surgery.

  15. Yes it is certainly my experience too that Esoteric Medicine combined with Western Medicine is the most supportive and practical way to go. Serge Benhayon is very pro-western medicine and I look forward to the day that western medicine equally recognises esoteric medicine. A growing number of doctors and practitioners do, but sadly there is too much misinformation out there which makes it harder for the public and medical profession to discover the benefits and what a wonderful partnership it is.

    1. Nicola I too look forward to the day where not only western medicine recognises, understands and has true energetic awareness but all do, for this is the missing link to our well-being.

    2. Nicola you make a very interesting observation when you say
      “sadly there is too much misinformation out there which makes it harder for the public and medical profession to discover the benefits and what a wonderful partnership it is.”
      We have all witnessed these last months the manipulation of the media to twist events so that fear is spread throughout society and when that occurs society will do anything to feel secure. Is the same energy feeding the misinformation about the benefits of combing Western Medicine with Universal Medicine so that we are denied a combination that has such healing qualities? Imagine

  16. A combination of all that western medicine offers while getting support to understand the energetic underlying things that may go on for anyone during such treatments brings the best of both worlds, and offers a more complete and whole picture on how we can be with illness. What I feel reading this blog is how the author has had tremendous support from both sides and how in that she’s been able to find her own way with her cancer journey and learned to be and live a way that is more honouring of her and her body. This is something to hugely celebrate.

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